Geth or Quarians?

I did not upload my ME2 to my ME3, so I can't save both Geth and Quarians.
The geth give a bigger war asset, and help on the crucible. If I choose Geth, Quarians go extinct and Tali Vas Normandy (crewmate) dies. If I choose Quarians, Geth go extinct and can't help the crucible or the war. The Geth have a higher war asset of approximately 100 more.

This has made me decide - that I will re-beat ME2, and upload it to ME3 and restart ME3 at a later date.